And sometimes that knowledge will be enough to give guys approach anxiety right away. I have, too. Usually because of the level of self-esteem and self confidence of the guy using them. Only about a milion times, probably.
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And sometimes that knowledge will be enough to give guys approach anxiety right away. I have, too. Usually because of the level of self-esteem and self confidence of the guy using them. Only about a milion times, probably. Well, the last thing you need is to feel like your game is being destroyed by a woman that can see right through you. Are you confident with certain women, but the 9s and 10s leave you speechless and nervous? Are you ever intimidated by trying to date younger, more attractive women?
Do you have trouble handling the other more aggressive guys out there? Do you feel invisible to women? Do you feel like beautiful women shake you up? Do you feel like you think more about things than you should? Do you frequently feel indecisive? Do you just want to feel comfortable in your own skin? And authentic to who you are? Do you want to be able to express your feelings and true personality? He also finds that: Conversation comes easy.
There are no more uncomfortable silences… The sting of rejection disappears. The fact is that your level of inner confidence also affects how successful you are with your social life and social network, too. So what are the most important parts of your inner game to work on?
We want to be confident and secure, and we want to really like who we are as a person. But HOW do you improve it? Self-discipline is that ability to say what you should when you know you should, and — more importantly — keeping your mouth shut when you ought to just be quiet.
Will you know what to do when the time comes? The next area of inner game that you have to know is… 3. This is another skill that no one ever taught us: How to change. From acupuncture to hypnotism. He kept smoking until the day he died. My uncle was always getting crappy jobs, drinking like a fish, and doing more drugs than most of the rock bands I was listening to. I listened to his lame excuses for his behavior, and I heard about him trying to rehab every week.
But then I saw other people in my life changing their lives around. I had friends that quit smoking and became respectable and successful. I wanted to know how to change or improve whatever I wanted so that I could be the man I wanted to be. The way we feel about our appearance impacts our level of self-esteem and how attractive we feel with women. These guys know something different about themselves that stops them from seeing the missing hair as being a reason to feel like they are less attractive or less manly.
And they also have the ability to… 5. But there are so many guys who run into the brick wall of their own emotions in many different situations. Men simply are not brought up to manage or understand their emotions the same way women are. But emotional intelligence is the number one indicator of your level of happiness, life satisfaction, and ultimate level of success. The skills to manage our internal state are also incredibly important for when we want to approach women, or when we want to move in for the kiss, or escalate things sexually with a woman.
And, funny enough, this also leads to… 6. Yes, I did. And your social skills fit right into your inner game. Your Inner Game does not improve without outer game techniques and successes that complete the circuit for you. Inner Game is like the positive terminal on a battery… you have all this potential, but nothing happens until you connect it to the negative terminal of your battery — your OUTER game. This is why most guys end up bored, frustrated — and they quit. And then they end up settling for less in their lives.
They fight long and hard to get very little results. I mean, if some tip helped me get even just a little bit more confident, it was worth the work to find it. Every little bit counts. And I found a LOT of secrets over the years. Well, I realized after many years of struggling, that my own mind was tricking me in a lot of ways. Like making me think that what other people were thinking of me was good or bad — or that it really mattered at all. Usually a lot more than that! I must have read books and listened to another hundred tapes and CDs on self-development.
I went through everything I could find out there. Not everything I read was new to me. In fact, the reality is that most of that stuff only had a couple nuggets of pure gold in them. So after going through most of my notes, my workbooks, and journals, I decided to pull together all the stuff I had on this one topic of self-confidence and inner game into something that any guy could use — and not have to spend months and years learning.
And I now know what really does work and what really does NOT work. Have you ever wanted to know: How to experience strong emotions like love and excitement — and still feel in control? How to avoid resenting women and feeling angry with them?
How to get what you want without feeling needy and insecure? How to switch off that negative voice in your head that stops you from succeeding?
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